Best way to choose the right life partner.

How easy is choosing a life partner? is it easy for you to choose what to wear in the morning? Or what to have for having in the restaurant? For a few of you, this may be easy but not for me. I suck at making decisions.

But when it came to taking an important decision like choosing a life partner, Imagine how difficult it was for me.

What did I do? I just followed simple rules and made through it. Allow me to explain it to you.

1. Make a crucial list.

list of your demands, the things you want in your husband and that can not be excused. Few things you can’t just overlook. When I was looking for life partner my must-have list was height more than mine. i.e. 5’5’’ must be working, non-smoker.

Girls have education, job field, age, looks, hair, etc in their priority. So ask yourself what is something which you want in your life partner, without which you just can't go forward. This crucial list will help you to eliminate unwanted profiles and will save you time and energy.

2. Watch their interests.

Both should have at least a few common interests, yea, apposite attracts but we don’t have to take it literally. One or two common interests can help you to bond.

3. Connectivity.

Although, I am not good at decisions but I can understand within minutes if I could connect to the person I am talking to. So to move forward and be happy this connectivity is a must. There’s an easy way to understand this, In a conversation, if you have to pause and think what to say next, it means you two don’t have that connection. Unless one of you is so much shy or introvert.

Connectivity is something which is felt within, your instincts will tell you.

4. Social and economic standards.

Must be thinking I am going a little overboard, but yes you have to understand and able to relate to your alliance standard. It helps you to adjust after marriage. Freshwater fishes don’t survive in seawater.

5. Financial stability.

Many of the times, the main reason for the couple fight is money. Either the money is not enough or either of them wasting it over non-sense etc. so if you both are financially stable then it will be easy for your boat to sail.

6. Intellectual levels.

Along with the interests, your both intellectual levels should also match. because imagine you two discussing over some crucial things. If that doesn’t match, imagine the blunder that going to happen.

7. Bad Habit.

Say no to bad habits. Smoking, alcohol others, say no. put them in your crucial lists. Even if you have any bad habit, choose a person who doesn’t have one, because that can help you to get sober.

These are the things you can look for to shortlist the candidates. Follow up points are on how to get 100% sure about him.

8. Trust

Trusting anyone can take years, but we don’t have that much time right. Just crosscheck him in different instances, make sure he is honest about whatever he said and told so far. That’s the only way to check this.

9. Patience is a rare quality found in a very genuine person

10. Respect

If he respects you, your family, your decisions then there are 50% fewer chances of fights and arguments between you two.

11. Commitment and loyalty

Love means nothing without commitment and loyalty. It’s a promise of being together and not letting go.

12. Who makes you feel important and wanted.

13. Go to person

Sooner or later that person will become your home, you tell him anything and everything.

14. Who makes you feel better in difficult times.

15. Who can make you smile even in the worst conditions

16. Who will listen to you.

17. Not a cry baby.

There are so many people who just cant stop complaining, govt. is doing this, office colleagues did that, these issues that issue. Stay away from such people.

18. Who gives you time.

19. Who gives you space.

20. Who doesn’t “guide” you always.

21. Who is proud of you.

22. Who sometimes disagree with you.

23. Who supports you in public but correct you in private.

24. Who doesn’t insult you or harm your self-confidence even as a joke.

25. Who know to enjoy your love and care.

26. Who puts efforts in building a strong relationship.

27. Who appreciates your efforts to built this relationship.

28. Who is not ashamed to cry in Infront of you.

29. Who tells everything with you.

30. Who is not ashamed or afraid of calling you as his.

31. Who knows to accept his fault.

32. Who knows how to forgive.

33. Who never gives up on you.

34. Stay away from aggressive personalities.

35. Stay away from a lazy person.

36. Stay away from a self-centered person.

Someone with so much of self -love, self- appreciation cannot love anyone else.

Do not look for perfection, god never prepared them neither planning to anytime soon, but surely he has prepared someone so perfect for you.

Couples are like puzzle blocks, they became perfect only after they meet.